Saturday, November 24, 2012

My Connections to Play


Quotes about play
“Play is hard to maintain as you get older. You get less playful. You shouldn’t, of course”.
Richard Feynman
American physicist
1918–1988


“We don't stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing.”
George Bernard Shaw


Play was a huge part of my memories from childhood.  I remember pretending to play school, house and dress up.  I had a love for Barbie dolls and blocks, which I played with a lot.  Some of my play was inside but a lot was outside with bikes, skip-it, chalk, jump ropes and with neighborhood friends.  I remember being told to “stay outside and find something to play with or come inside and sit in my room and do nothing” by both my parents.  Many times we went to Rock Creek Park, the playground, the beach which didn’t allow for lots of TV time.  I did not grow up with game systems which I know had a huge part in the development of my imagination.  All of our play senarioes were created by us, without support from the TV or games. 
 
  
 
Today there is little play.  TV and games have taken over children imagination.  Children are not creative thinkers.  Children come home and watch TV or play games instead of going outside to play.  I have noticed children do not know how to pretend or work with others in play situations. 
I hope that teachers and families learn the importance of play.  I hope school administrators learn the value of play and promote play as an active tool for learning instead of pushing for “rigor”.  Once families and schools are on board I hope children will become comfortable pretending, playing, and using their imagination to their fullest. 

Saturday, November 10, 2012

Relationship Reflection

I am blessed to have strong healthy relationships with people.  Over the years I have learned that to maintain relationships both people must value the relationship equally.  Trust and honesty are also vital components of healthy relationships.

As I am getting older I am improving the relationship with my parents.  My mom and I have always had a difficult time communicating however, we both have tried to work on it together. My girlfriend Danielle have been friends for 19 years.  She is the friend everyone should have.  She is honest, loyal, and dependable.  She tells the truth even when its not warranted, lol.  Se has helped me to be a better woman and an accountable woman.  What makes us last is our effort to stay connected even with life changes.  I have been in a relationship for 4 years with the man I believe was created just for me.  He taught me to love.  We laugh and battle the challenges of life together.

I have strong relationships with many people and they all have some attributes in common? We love hard, we are honest with each other, we value the relationship equally, we invest time in developing our relationships, and we accept each other as we are.